Sharing Your Beliefs -MormonMessage

http://www.lds.org/pages/mormon-messages?lang=eng#sharing-your-beliefs
Shows how much one click can do. :)

Spice it up...uniforms, school outfits, and more.

I know.  I know. 
   Some of you are dreading going back to school because you have to wear uniforms to school. Or maybe you're moaning because modesty is so hard to come by.  And school has either started for you or it will start super soon!  Here are a few ideas to beautify your wardrobe, and even your school uniform!  Some of the pieces we see here are from Maurices, DownEast, and ShabbyApple.  :)

4 ways to spice up your school uniform (**if school policy allows**)

1. Belts! 
    They're not just useful for keeping your pants up, they can also be used in first aid, epic heroic swinging, and comfortable modest fashion.  ;)
 
2. Scarves!
    Warm, fuzzy, and positively wonderful in modest fashion - these babies will help spice up your boring school uniform in a jiffy.  :)


3. Headbands
    Who ever said your head and hair couldn't be modestly fashionable as well?  Glam up your duds with a bow, flower, or a tie and - WALA! - simple and easy...not to mention amazing!
 

4. Jewelry!
    Bling or basic, add a little, and it can spice up your plain old uniform  (khakis go crazy with sparkly or simple accessories.)



Now how about some more school modesty ideas??!!

I love this top from ShabbyApple!  It's fairly loose-fitting, not too clingy at all, and can go with anything!

A few Shabby ideas for gym class, track, or any other sporty event starting up this fall.


Some of Down East's new stylish items.

Modest Fashion Post :)

It has been a while since I've posted a modest fashion post.  So here we go.  The items featured on this post are from Maurice's (one of my favorite stores!)  I'm giving a few "outfit" suggestions.  Enjoy! -maurices.com
-J

OUTFIT ONE:

with and  (don't forget) with along with

Do You Choose to Be Pure?

Hi!
   So, this post is about choosing to be pure.  The video that I have linked to is a video of several different youth, from various denominations, who have committed to purity.
    Please join these youth in their commitment to virtue.
-Flame

https://www.lds.org/youth/video/i-choose-to-be-pure?lang=eng

Examples of Amazing Young Women

Hi Friends!
  Here are a few videos I found about some amazing young women in our times!  They truly are examples of the "Flame" and hold up the Light of Christ.  Click, enjoy, and comment!
-Flame

-This video is about a girl's search to know the validity that God is there and that she had a testimony of the truth.
-This video is about a trial a girl and her family went through, and the faith that she had.
-This video is about a girl who, despite her ailment, chose to serve others and help those less fortunate than her.
-This video is about a girl who has blessed others through her talent, and shown her gratitude through sharing her gifts.

Music Ideas

Hi guys!
  This is a great website to get free, uplifting music downloads.  Try it out!
:) Flame

https://www.lds.org/youth/music?lang=eng

Have you done any good??

Hi ladies!

   This post is going to be based off of doing "good continually" and serving others. It will include some ideas, videos, and other things.  :)

Videos:
-This video is by Alex Boye and Carmen Rasmusen Herbert.  It's their music video "Have I Done Any Good in the World Today."  It's really good.  :)
-This video is about a girl with cerebral palsy and the people whose "hands became His hands" and their hearts "became His heart."
-This video is about a sweet lady from Delaware who served those with disabilities, including her own child.
-This video is about an amazing woman who serves so many people!  She is so awesome.  :)

Now that you've seen some ways to serve and some "motivational" videos, here are a few other examples of how you can "do good."  See http://learnthis.ca/2010/02/100-ways-to-serve-others/ for more ideas.

Some Examples of How YOU Can Serve:

1. Smile: It's so simple, but it can make a huge difference in someone's life.  There's this kid at my work who always smiles when I walk by, and it just makes me happy and feel better (since my work can be exhausting.)
2. Get the door for somebody: This isn't just for boys (though many girls appreciate it.)  See a person in a wheelchair, a mother with a stroller, or an older person approaching a door?  Help open it for them. 
3. Write an article, a song, a post, etc:  Write something motivational and share it!  What's the purpose of writing beautiful words if they can't touch someone besides you?
4. Bake goodies for somebody: I love doing this!  People always appreciate it so much, and it is fun and easy.  (And plus, you usually get to eat the leftovers.) :)
5. Encourage/compliment others: It's so easy.  "Good job on your science project!"  "Come on -  I know you can get your left side splits!"  "Your hair is so cute today!"
6. Say thank you..
7. Help clean up a yard of a neighbor who may not have time to, or is moving.
8. Pay tithing or donate to a good cause.
9. Follow inspiration: You never know when your influence is needed!
10. Volunteer at a local hospital, museum, or elderly home.

There are so many ways to help, so just remember to always be open to those opportunities.

Modesty Videos from Various Churches

Hi Girls!
 
  So these are a few modesty videos I found from various denominations (churches) and their viewpoints on modesty!  Hope you enjoy! 

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hlMiKZbK_FM&feature=related
      I'm not sure what denomination these guys are from, but this is a pretty interesting video.  I know for my church, we do believe in covered shoulders, and they didn't mention that too much.  But I loved how they talked about carrying yourself and representing Christ through how you dress.  I also really liked how they talked about drawing attention.  Enjoy!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yP93iN-vHbY&feature=related  
      This one is really cute and made by some young girls!  They are of some christian denomination, and I thought they did a good job. 

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M9M5yv7DoB8
       This one is very good as well!  It's from a Catholic viewpoint and has some very good points. 

   
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=miv7HRnkwyk
        This is another really good video, like a group discussion about modesty.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ut53LeKIPlU
          I love this one.  It's about a modesty fashion show.  It's so good!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=fvwp&v=Z80iCZhPPcc&NR=1
           I like this one because it talks about being modest at church or mass.

Landfill

Hi Ladies!
  I got on today, not really knowing what it was I should post about. 
  Now, I think I know.
  To start off, I wanted to post this video from lds.org/youth.

https://www.lds.org/youth/video/reclaimed?lang=eng

I love that video.  It reminds me of a story that my stake president told in a high council meeting, which my father was in attendance. 

When my stake president was young and my hometown Syracuse was just farmland, he had a bike.  He loved this bike.  It was his favorite toy.  But one day it broke, and his father took him to the landfill to throw away his bike.

Years later, just like Idaho Falls, Syracuse's landfill is now a park. There are homes there.  There are trees, families, and even ponds.

Just like in the video, it would be ridiculous to dig my stake president's bike back up.  Why would you want something broken to resurface in your life, and destroy the beauty that has replaced it?

Just like these two stories, we all have mistakes, weaknesses, addictions, problems, and issues.  But once we give them over to Christ, it would be ridiculous to try to get them back. 

That's the wonderful thing about the Atonement and the Savior.   Christ can make shortcomings into successes and gross landfills of sin into beautiful parks. 

Once we have given our sins over to Christ, we should not try to reclaim them.  We should not return to them.  Carrying around a broken bike for the rest of our life would be clutter.  We should not hoard our mistakes, shortcomings, or issues.

It's time to let your landfill become a park.

 

Young Women Mutual Ideas

Here are some Mutual Ideas.  :) Enjoy!!
--J

Mutual Activities

• Faith Walk: Set this up in a back yard or something like that. Take a rope and tie it to tries, posts, fences, etc. to make a path.  Blindfold each girl and lead her down the rope.  Have the class presidency tempt them (for example say: "Jen! We have ice cream sandwiches over here...just follow me!") or throw water balloons at them.  Have faith stops, etc.
•  Make clay jewelry!  This is way fun and home-making like! We did this for my Mia Maid class, and with was so great. :) 
• Do a lip gloss night.  We did this and it was way great!  Click here for recipes. 
• Parade of rooms.  I've never done this, but it sounds fun (and a good excuse to clean your room.)  http://www.christysclipart.com/room_activity.html
• Have a recipe night.  We've done this before and it was way great!  You could make recipe boxes, exchange recipes, or learn how to make different seasonal recipes.  For example: 1 - We made cinnamon rolls!  Way fun.  2 - We learned different Autumn Recipes from several girls/moms.  The recipes were exchanged and then we got to sample each!
• Dirty Doubles Kickball.  You play this like kickball except for a few details.  Each base is composed of "dirtying" things.  The first is a baby pool full of shaving cream.  The second is a baby pool of mud.  And the 3rd is a baby pool full of water, with a water slide to home base.  Make sure the girls are dressed appropriately.   Then pair them into doubles, tie them together by their legs (like a 3 legged race), and play!
• I've never done this, but this sounds great for Presidency Training: Leadership Training Sleepover - Present four 20 minute workshops: 1) Positive Attitude, 2) Friendship, 3) Time Management and 4) Personal Progress. After a night of snacks, games, and fun, end the activity with a simple breakfast. Follow up with a leadership training lesson at your next class presidency meeting on Daily Spiritual Preparation.

DO YOU HAVE IDEAS FOR MUTUAL?  COMMENT, EMAIL gomerxoxo@yahoo.com, ETC.

Disguise

Here's the next song.  It's called Disguise.  It's about not putting on a disguise or changing who you are for the world.
-J

Disguise

V1. I have dreamt a thousand times

That I was what they wanted me to be

But the dream isn't mine

It's what they want to see

Chorus:

I'm not going to change

Just to please their eyes

(oh-oh-oh)

My life isn't going to rearrange

Just cuz they want a disguise

V2. I can't do what they ask

I am not going to change to make them smile

I'm not going to wear a mask

Try to change me isn't worth the while

Chorus.

V3. (sing twice)

I'm beautiful, beautiful without beautification

Fit perfectly without alteration

Gorgeous, gorgeous, inside and out

Oh, I'm going to scream and shout!

Chorus.

Chorus Again.

My Soul

Here's another one of my songs.  It's called "My Soul."  It's about not letting the world govern who you are.

-J

My Soul

V1: They can't tear me down,
Pull me down with their chains

Drive me out of town,

Or drown me in the pain.

And they can't make me small,

Tell me who I am,

Limit me to nothing at all,

Cuz I can...

Chorus: Fly higher than any airplane

Work just as hard, despite the time I came

(yes I can)

Be beautiful despite what they say

Forsake the world and go my own way

Scream on a mountain til I'm whole

Cuz they don't rule my soul.

V2: Call me a freak

Just cuz I'm not like you

Criticize the words I speak

Or analyze everything I do.

But they can't say

What I'm meant to be

I go the right way

And be the one and only me.

(Chorus)

V3: And they can try

To make me change

Tell me I am shy

But I know my range.

And I am beautiful

Despite what they say

And I am wonderful

In my own way.

(Chorus)

(Repeat Chorus)

Top to Bottom

Hey Ladies!
   Some of you know that I compose.  For one of my Personal Progress Projects, I've decided to write  divinely inspired (hopefully!) songs.  I'll be posting the lyrics to them on the blog.  Hope you enjoy!  Comment, questions, etc.  This one is about the beauty in you!
-J

Top to Bottom
V1. Today you told me you're not good enough
That your arms are weak and you don't feel so tough.
But I have news for you
You are as strong as you make up your mind to

Chorus:
I hope you know
When you walk by I go wo...
I hope you see
That you are top to bottom beauty
And you were made the way you are for a reason
Because beauty doesn't come and go with the season

V2. You fight and fight to change who you are
Counting all your lucky stars
But you're missing the point here
The letters on the wall are clear.

Chorus

V3. Don't listen to what they say to you
Their diet, tips, and lists of things to do
They're missing the beauty
That's inside already

You're gorgeous
You're beautiful

Chorus

Magnify Your Calling: As a Friend

  Have you ever really thought of friendship as a calling??
  Though you don't get set apart by a priesthood holder or attend regular meetings, friendship is a calling of its own.
   In Mosiah Chapter 18, in verse 9 it reads:
    Yea, and are ^awilling to mourn with those that ^bmourn; yea, and comfort those that stand in need of comfort, and to stand as ^cwitnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places that ye may be in, even until death...

  As friends, don't we do many of those things?  Haven't you ever comforted a friend, mourned alongside them, or stood up for your standards while with them?

  I believe that friendship is a very important calling, one that is both easy and hard, challenging and rewarding. 
   Presdient Henry B Eyring, in this message, talks about friendship.  He says:
 

One of the great tributes the Savior can give is to call us “friends.” We know that He loves with a perfect love all of His Heavenly Father’s children. Yet for those who have been faithful in their service with Him, He reserves this special title. You remember the words from the 84th section of the Doctrine and Covenants: “And again I say unto you, my friends, for from henceforth I shall call you friends, it is expedient that I give unto you this commandment, that ye become even as my friends in days when I was with them, traveling to preach the gospel in my power” (D&C 84:77).

We become His friends as we serve others for Him. He is the perfect example of the kind of friend we are to become. He wants only what is best for His Heavenly Father’s children. Their happiness is His happiness. He feels their sorrow as His own because He has paid the price of all their sins, taken upon Himself all their infirmities, borne all their troubles, and felt all their longings. His motives are pure. He seeks no recognition for Himself but to give all glory to His Heavenly Father. The perfect friend, Jesus Christ, is completely selfless in offering happiness to others.

Each of us who has made the baptismal covenant has promised to follow His example to bear one another’s burdens as He would (see Mosiah 18:8).

In the next few days you will have many opportunities to be a friend for Him. It may be as you walk on a dusty road. It may be as you sit down in a railroad car. It may be as you look for a place to sit in a Church congregation. If you are watching, you will see someone carrying a heavy burden. It may be a burden of sorrow or loneliness or resentment. It may be visible to you only if you have prayed for the Spirit to give you eyes to see into hearts and have promised to lift up the hands that hang down.

I hope we all embrace and magnify our calling as friends in this world.  :)

-J



Magnify Your Calling: Church Service Callings as Presidency

Hi,
  So as metioned in our previous post "Magnify Your Calling", the Flame is going to be posting a few things about magnifying different callings.  Enjoy, comment, and ask questions! Thanks.
   -J

Chruch Service Callings
   At the age of young womanhood, there aren't quite as many callings to be had.  But I believe that the callings that are commonly extended to youth are some of the most wonderful and intimate (or personal) callings in the Church.
   Many of you may be serving in class presidencies.  I have served in a number of presidencies, and I can tell you with all honesty that there is something special about these callings.  They are a call of leadership, but also of fellowship.
    The main purpose of a class presidency is to fellowship, love, and bring others unto Christ.  We must strive to develop a personal relationship with each one of the girls and show genuine love, compassion, and friendship. 
   How do we magnify our callings by fellowshipping?  What does it even mean to fellowship?
  In the online dictionary, it says:
   Fellowship: the condition or relation of being a fellow: the fellowship of humankind; community of interest, feeling, etc.

  

   Fellowshipping is really about becoming friends with one another.  One great thing I love about my ward is how close and friendly all the girls are.  I've noticed various people reaching out to other girls of different ages, likes, interests, and lifestyles.  I strongly admire those who break the boundaries of designated groups.  One beautiful thing my old Beehive counselor said was, "We must not have any -ites among us.  No cheerleader-ites, no soccer-ites, no scholar-ites."

  

  How do you fellowship in a presidency?

  I believe fellowshipping is one of the greatest ways to magnify your calling.  Do the small, simple things that Christ would've done.  Remember that no act of kindness is too small.

   Some things I've seen done in presidencies to help fellowship include:

•      Taking cookies or treats to the girls.  My presidency has been doing this.  You just make some cookies, attach a little love note, sign from the presidency, and then doorbell ditch them.  It works great!  They are always so grateful afterwards and can really feel the love.
•      Welcome new girls or girls advancing into your class.  Go deliver a gift, stop by her house and talk to her, or things like that.  Remember to make her feel special.  Don't forget to announce her presense in opening exercises and help the girls get to know her.  We does this funny thing where if there is anybody who is new, they have to respond to three random questions.  It helps them to feel loved and cared about.
•        Sit by a new person everyday.  Don't just always sit by your friends.  Encourage the rest of the class to do so as well.  Remember: the presidency can set a great example and encourage positive, friendly trends in their class.

    LOVE!  It's so simple sounding, but just make sure that they all know they are loved.  Call them if they miss church or mutual and tell them you missed them!  Greet them with love!  In my Mia Maid class, we've started a little prayer jar.  It contains the names of all our Mia Maids.  We draw a new name every week, and pray throughout the week for her to have a great week and to feel of our love.

  And lastly, BRING OTHERS UNTO CHRIST. 

   One important thing to remember in bringing souls to Christ, fellowshipping, and loving is to be like Christ.  I like to put it like this: It's the vowels - a, e, i, o, and u.

   A is for Accept: Accept them.  It does not matter when they come or in what state they come in, accept them.  Let them feel that you love them.  Try not to judge for their flaws or differences, just accept them for who they are.
  E is for Encourage: Encourage not only in Church activity, but also in whatever else they do.  Recognize their accomplishments, encourage them, and uplift them.
   I is for 'I love...': Don't over-shower them with compliments, but make sure that you still give them.  It is always so great feeling when others compliment you.  "I love your dress..." "I loved that comment you gave in Sunday School today..." "I love you!"
   O is for Open: Open not only the door for them to come to activities, but open your heart.  Be open to their suggestions, to their complaints, and to their struggles.
   And finally, U for Unify: Unify your girls.  Unify in love, in fun, in spiritual experiences, in the gospel, and in faith.

Magnify Your Calling

Hi Ladies!
   Lately, I've been thinking about callings.  I wanted to share a little bit with you on that topic today.

   First of all, what are our callings in life?

   There are several different callings that we may be asked to accept.  We may have accepted them in the premortal realm.  It may be a calling that God asked you to fulfill before you were born.  And you accepted, telling him you would do anything he required of you.
    It may be a church calling.  You could be serving as a member of a presidency, a family history specialist, or in some other capacity.
    Or it may be a call to be a mother, a sister, a friend, a missionary, a wife, a daughter, or so forth.

  There are more callings in this life than just those that the bishop extends to you.  But no matter what your calling may be, magnify your calling. 
  
   What does it mean to magnify your calling?  How do we magnify our calling?

   In the next few weeks, I will be describing some ways we can magnify our own personal callings. I also encourage you to pray sincerely about your callings in life and to study it out.

President Monson said:
 

I would hope that we would not lose the real objective of our cherished opportunities to serve. That objective, that eternal goal, is the same spoken of by the Lord and found in the Pearl of Great Price: “For behold, this is my work and my glory—to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man.”¹

May we ever remember that the mantle of membership in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is not a cloak of comfort but rather a robe of responsibility. Our duty, in addition to saving ourselves, is to guide others to the celestial kingdom of God.

   I hope each of us can learn better about magnifying our callings and letting our "flame'' glow and grow. 

-J

We are Beautiful

  In April 2006, President Hinckley gave a talk in the Priesthood Session of General Conference.  In it he said:
  A week ago this hall was filled with beautiful young women who are striving to live the gospel. They are generous toward one another. They seek to strengthen one another. They are a credit to their parents and the homes from which they come. They are approaching womanhood and will carry throughout their lives the ideals which presently motivate them.
   I love that quote, but even more - I love it when it is applied to you and me.  Like this (insert your name instead of the ones used):
   A week ago this hall was filled with beautiful women, like Cassidy, who are striving to live the gospel.  Amanda is generous to others.  Jane seeks to strengthen others.  Alice is a credit to her parents and the home from which she comes.  Madi is approaching womanhood and will carry througout her life the ideals which presently motivate her.
   I love applying to myself, and I hope you do too.  Here's a little breakdown of what "we are" according to President Hinckley.
    "A week ago this hall was filled with beautiful women (like you), who are striving to live the gospel."
    Ask yourself this question:
    How is beauty connected with living the gospel?
    Elaine Dalton says, "The world places so much emphasis on physical attractiveness and would have you believe that you are to look like the elusive model on the cover of a magazine. The Lord would tell you that you are each uniquely beautiful. When you are virtuous, chaste, and morally clean, your inner beauty glows in your eyes and in your face. My grandfather used to say, 'If you live close to God and His infinite grace—you won’t have to tell, it will show in your face.'"
     By living your standards, you are beautiful!
    The next part says, "(You) are generous to others.  (You) seek to strengthen others."
    This reminds of our baptismal covenants in Mosiah 18. 
    8 And it came to pass that he said unto them: Behold, here are the waters of Mormon (for thus were they called) and now, as ye are ^adesirous to come into the ^bfold of God, and to be called his people, and are willing to bear one another’s burdens, that they may be light;

9 Yea, and are ^awilling to mourn with those that ^bmourn; yea, and comfort those that stand in need of comfort, and to stand as ^cwitnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places that ye may be in, even until death, that ye may be redeemed of God, and be numbered with those of the ^dfirst resurrection, that ye may have eternal life—

     Next, "you are a credit to your parents and home...."

     What does it mean to credit your home?   

     In my view, it means to contribute to your home.  Follow the "Family" standards in the For the Strength of Youth pamphlet.  Help your siblings.  Love and assist your parents.  Be an example to your family.

      Lastly -

      They are approaching womanhood and will carry throughout their lives the ideals which presently motivate them.

      -Live your standards.  Never lower your standards.  Always keep them high and let them be your motivation.-

    Love President Hinckley.  And I love what "we are."

   

   

Handouts...is it 8??

You guys know the drill.

These are made with Creative Memories. Click on them to save and feel totally free to use them! Let me know if you need them translated into a different language. :)

-J

Patriarchal Blessings, Letter to Stake Presidents  2012 Handout

Basis Upon Which We Build; Howard W Hunter Handout - 2012

-All Things are Possible with Faith; Thomas S Monson/Matthew 14:29-31  - 2012